Autistic, agender, formerly abused child

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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • Wow. I’ve seen then mentioned a few times on here before but never knew the background. I’m a particular fan of them claiming they made john oliver famous through the spam.

    The cynic in me absolutely suspectes reddit kept them around just for the traffic they generated. But as soon as the protests started it seems to have been “not like this”.






  • I think 7 years? I browsed reddit for a while before that reading up on my interests but eventually I created an account. Spent a LOT of time on subs for people who were abused as children. Therapy was used against me as part of the abuse. I am triggered by therapists now -.-" so these online self help spaces were a major part of my journey to understand and start recovery. It became a cornerstone to help me become a person.

    Eventually several of these subs had a lot of internal drama. Back then I felt fealty to these communities and tried super hard to fix it. No avail. In a way I did my reorienting and mourning my lost community back then. I cut back on reddit use like 80% already going from many hours a day to maybe a few times a week? I’d still engage if something caught my attention. Especially in the refugee subs about childhood abuse that sprung up.

    The recent protests brought that down to “only if I need some specific information”. Maybe twice a month? I don’t engage at all anymore. I also didn’t feel like talking to a brick wall again to attempt to fix an online place. The rhethoric and even some methods between spez and some mods I tangled with is similar enough. I just left this time around. Let my actions speak. I can’t bring my self to delete my comments tho.

    I still miss a place where people intuitively get what I’ve been through because they have similar stories. And I’d like to pass it forward some more. I haven’t found anything similar on the fediverse yet. But I’m in a place where I don’t need it much anymore. It’s still just sad that a handful of humans can destroy communities like this. It had such a big impact on my life.

    Thanks for reading my sad ramblings!